Monday, February 26, 2018

Filipino - American Couple (Long Distance Relationship)

It's been a month since we became in LDR again after marriage. It's sad but its okay, we are looking forward to see each other again. We been LDR for more than a year before we get married, but still its so sad to said goodbye specially now that we are husband and wife.

After our wedding, I go with him to United Kingdom as a tourist visa, we live together as a husband and wife (yay). After four months he needs to go back to the United States of America so i had to go back to Philippines as i dont have a US Visa. It was a sweet sad goodbye. We leave UK together same date but different time, flight and terminal. He's in terminal 4 and i am terminal 2. His destination was for America and mine was for Philippines. His departure was 10am and mine was 12pm. Ahhh the struggle is real. Saying goodbye is hard. I dont look at him when i get off the car, i just hugged him so tight and then walk to the entrance. I am glad that the service dropped me off first, or else i will cry out loud to see him leave.

I am sad but glad that we are not in the same terminal, for sure we are going to cry seeing each other leave huhu. 

Everyday we do video call, everytime he wakes up and before he goes to bed. His good morning is my good night. Time zones.


Sunday, November 5, 2017

Couple Relationship Goals

Well i know our relationship is not perfect but we do our best to be happy and contented with each other. I just love how we are.

Monday, October 9, 2017

Long Distance Relationship Success Story

Photo grabbed from google

Hello everyone i decided to make this blog to document our LDR Success Story.
It was all started in an online dating site Christian Filipina.

Yeah we only met online, it was funny that i been in that dating site for a long time. Talk a lot of guys and nothings happen.Then had a more than a year of  LDR to a guy from out of the country, thought he is the one, first we were happy and in love, but many months passed and still we did not see each other personally, I get cold towards him. Felt like relationship goes to nowhere. I decided to end our relationship. Told to myself whoever man will go and see me personally will be the man that God given to me. I ask and prayed from above, ask for a sign.

When i am about to give up like I'm not opening my account anymore, i only open when i received a notification that someone messaged me. One day got a notification saying someone is messaging so i open and replied. The next day i got a reply and the conversation continue. Days passed by we decided to have a video call to see each other on cam. It was Saturday as i don't have work on Saturday and so him. It took us an hour to make move about the video call until he bravely called. It was okay we awkwardly talk haha.

Honestly he was not the typical white guy i am dreaming of, we have same height, has a brown eyes, while i am dreaming of a tall blue eyes white guy. Days and weeks passed by our communication keep on going. No day will passed without messaging each other, until one day he asked me to become his girlfriend. I am hesitant as it seems like too fast, but then i just go with the flow i said yes. It's LDR and who knows if he's serious or just playing. I told him that if you are really serious and interested with me you should go to the Philippines and see me personally. 

A week later he said he is going to the Philippines to see me personally. I just said okay, in my mind i dont believe it, I will just believe when i see a plane ticket. After a month of talking he send me the plane ticket itinerary and i was OMG this is it, he is really going to see me.

The day came on his arrival, i was on Terminal 2 waiting for him. I can't understand what i feel. I dont know, nervous, afraid hahaha. Then the moment of truth, saw a bald man walking out in the arrival area and its him. Hahahaha it was awkward at first but we just clicked. It seems like we know each other from a long time "hahaha yeah for a month of chatting" but there is that connection that you dont understand.

We went to Palawan for a holiday, yeah i went with him. I feel at ease on his side. He is so kind and he respect me a lot, very gentleman. This was all happened last year from March 2016 to May 2016.

Thats it to make the story short after the first met, he went  back again to see me, met my whole family, asking their permission to asked my hand from them lol. Went to boracay where he proposed. I was lucky that my Visa to UK was approved and stay with him for four months. After 4 mos i go back to the Philippines to prepare our wedding. We just got married last month September 30, 2017, and as of now i am here in UK again as a tourist Visa.

Saturday, October 22, 2016

Our Second Trip Together - His second time in the Philippines

After four months from his first visit, he went back to the Philippines. This time he has a plan on proposing to me. His vacation leave was two weeks, before we went to Boracay he met my parents and my siblings first. He asked permission from my parents about the proposal. Lucky him my parents said yes hahaha lol. We went to Boracay and as soon as we arrived to our hotel (Hey Jude), he talked to the receptionist about his plan (I know nothing about his plan that time). He arranged a nice dinner in front of the beach, he was worried because that time it was raining but good thing the rain stop during dinner time. We had a very nice dinner when he suddenly grab my hand and say something blah blah and then i knew what he's gonna do. He was about to kneel but i told him not to do so. I know the hotel's worker was waiting for that thing to happen because they keep on looking on us, but I dont allow him to kneel i just told him to give me the ring hahaha. I told him to only kneel to God. 

I was really happy that time,it feels like heaven. OMG i cant believe it, we had a really good time in Boracay. The next day after our Island Hopping, i was again surprised when i enter the room, with flowers and balloons all over. I feel like a kid again. He never run out of surprises.

Yes we were engaged yay. After his vacation he went back to the UK and ohh well our communication was getting stronger, and we planned that i will visit him to the UK to see how are we living together in the same roof.

Saturday, June 4, 2016

Our First Trip Together - His first time in the Philippines

Yeah that's right. Our first trip together was El Nido Palawan. We stayed at Cadlao Resort, we only had three days two nights because, well hahaha he thought that if ever relationship wont work we can go back to Manila right away hahaha i only knew this reason like many months later. Well relationship goes well we just clicked, so he feel bad for not having a week of stay in a Paradise like El Nido. We had a lot of fun and do Island hopping, too bad we are not prepared for an underwater camera, but over all we had a blast and had a lot of photos still.

The start of our forever, after his vacation to Philippines, he went back to his place. Everything goes well, no more issues, no day will passed without messaging each other, even how busy we were from our work we still had time to message, we made time for our daily conversation and just message any free time. Every weekends were our video call date. I am so lucky to have had finally find a guy who's dedicated to me. We were both lucky. Respect and Communication is the KEY!